Oh how I want to marry a foreigner!, – such requests are increasingly heard during the conversations between Polish women. With this desire Polish girls go to marriage agencies. Although we do not have accurate data on how many Polish women every year leave home country forever, we can affirmatively say that this number is quite large and growing interest in foreign men is stable. There are many companies in Poland, organizing meetings of Polish girls with potential foreign groom. Most of these marriage agencies are in Warsaw and Krakow, as well as in other major Polish cities.
The head of one of such marriage agencies reported that at present the most popular among foreign grooms type of Polish women are those, aged 27-35 y.o. Foreigners used to choose a young bride, but in recent years the trend has changed and candidates under 20 years old are not interested by foreigners. They are too young and inexperienced, do not know what they want in life. Therefore, foreign brides are looking for older, wiser Polish brides.
Previously, many Polish girls thought foreigner is a prince from a fairy tale, but those thoughts has changed recently. Earlier, when Polish girls have rarely been abroad or had not been there at all, thought that it is just heaven out there overseas and everything will be different if she is happy to live there. But with the advent of the European Union all has changed. Many Polish girls go to work or study in the UK or the US. Therefore, if these girls want to marry a foreigner, they know exactly what they want. Basically it is to love and be loved, to have money and dispose of them. Sometimes the reason of why Polish girls are traveling abroad is unrequited love in Poland; the inability to find the groom at home for a long time.
However, if mostly young girls in search of happiness leave Poland, the potential grooms who come to Poland are mainly from Western Europe and the US for over 45 years old. Foreign women are afraid of Polish women invasion, no matter how ridiculous it sounds. Poland is quite developed country in the European Union with high salaries. There are many poorer EU countries and Eastern Europe countries, where women are not less beautiful, but less demanding. Polish girls basically put a pretty high bar for themselves, so to win their heart is not easy.
Polish women are more likely than their Western European counterparts to think about their appearance. Look at just how they look like when they go out. They are always with makeup. And there is no difference, whether it is for walk, or she just went to the store to buy coffee.
Foreigners are very impressed with the desire of Polish women take care of the man she loves. Polish girl wants always to be sure that you’re OK, since you are her man. Even such little things like: Do you have clean pants? and What would you like to eat for dinner today?, are very pleasant and unusual for person from abroad.
However, according to human rights groups, about half marriages of Polish women with foreigners end with divorce and serious scandals. There are even cases where foreigners expelled women on the street. Most foreigners are taking a hasty decision to marry without knowing the person well. Another culture, language and customs also have a huge impact. So get to know a person before making a serious step.
There are foreign men who marry a Polish girl only that she bore him a child. After some time, he said that all relationships are exhausted and tells his wife to get out to her homeland. Most often this happens after three years of family life.
Do not think that all Polish women headlong want to marry a foreigner. On the contrary, many Polish women do not want to see a foreigner as her husband, believing them to be cowards, not adapted to life and unable to find a wife at home. Many Polish girls just want to have fun with aliens, but marry such Polish girl is highly unlikely.